by Peg O'Connor | Sep 4, 2026 | Internal Conflicts
Key points A “what if” orientation tends to cultivate grievance. Living in “what if” causes a person to lose the present and the future. A “what is” attitude cultivates acceptance of the present. Acceptance lends itself to flourishing. What-if orientation Many of us...
by Peg O'Connor | Apr 2, 2026 | Gifts of Recovery
“The greatest thing in the world is to know how to belong to oneself.” Montaigne (1533-1592) For the ancient Greeks, seeking self-knowledge was regarded as one of the most valuable pursuits a man could undertake. “Know thyself,” is inscribed on the Temple at Delphi,...
by Peg O'Connor | Apr 2, 2026 | Gifts of Recovery
Imagine Kelly, who always tries to make the best of a situation even when the odds are stacked against her. She struggles to pay her bills, make sure her kids are healthy and happy, and be a good daughter and friend. Kelly knows her life could get a lot worse with one...
